There is a lot of information out there on how to get a girl’s number. It’s a big topic and each guru has his own method to get numbers without problems. It’s funny that people get so excited about something so simple, however, it’s a very important step in getting from first meeting to date and so you need to know how to do it effectively if you ever want to see that bombshell. blonde. again.
There are plenty of good methods, like David DeAngelo’s approach of “getting her to write her email and then casually mentioning that she should write her number too.” Then there’s the pick-up art method, where you write your name on a piece of paper, tear it into two pieces, and hand him both pieces and a pen. No words needed. He writes her number in the blank and keeps the other one. While these are good approaches, let’s examine what actually happens the moment a woman gives you her number.
What is the purpose of getting your number in the first place? Why would she even want to give it to you? The answer is that she wants to meet again. They both know that there will be no follow-up meeting without a way to communicate with each other. This is the only role of the number. It is simply a link. She knows it as well as you. If a woman doesn’t give you her number, or she gives you a fake number, there’s only one reason: she doesn’t want to see you again. Oh! The truth hurts, sound.
But let me tell you from personal experience that everything is a matter of time. You have to spend enough time with her flirting and getting her interested that she wants to see you again. If you ask before she’s fully enthralled, it won’t happen. And all her hopes for further interaction have gone out the window.
Make sure she’s in love with you before you ask. Plain and simple. At that point, it’s relatively easy for her to get comfortable giving up digits. This is how I like to structure it:
-After opening and getting to know her, have her chat for a while.
-Always keep things light, fun and flirty. Accuse her of flirting with you, etc.
-Make her laugh, smile and really open up to you. Make sure she touches you first.
-After she touches you, you can feel free to start touching her back in a fun, playful, non-sexual way.
-When you’ve gotten enough signs of interest to know that she really is interested in you, this is where you can: (a) suggest a date (not ask, suggest) ex. “I’m going to the comedy club this weekend, you should come with me”, “I’m glad you like sports, we should watch a game together” or (b) Say you had fun but you need to get going.
Suggesting the date at this point is actually a great idea, because once she’s agreed that it would be fun, she now has a concrete reason to give you her number. She has to if she wants to keep having fun with you. Once she has agreed that she would like to do that, she can end the interaction by going to (b). (This should be where she should drop you off to go somewhere else, so save it until you’re ready to part ways. It’s best to keep first meetings short and sweet, though.) Just let her know that she has to go, and tell her that you had fun.
This is where my strategy for getting numbers comes into play. You just told her you’re leaving after she had so much fun with you. Actually, this should be a disappointment for her. If she’s not at least a little upset by this news, she probably doesn’t care if she gets to see you more or not. This is not a good sign. She must be absolutely attracted to you right now, or there’s no reason to get her number. This is what SHOULD be going through her mind right now: “Oh no, I don’t want him to go away, he’s so funny. I wonder if I’ll ever see this guy again.” It should almost be like the awkward moment before the first kiss. Now when you ask for her number, you are actually giving her the opportunity to continue the experience you just shared together. Now it is something positive. Now she really wants to give it to you.
So what is the easiest way to order it? don’t ask Most people these days have cell phones. Just open your cell phone and give it to him. You don’t have to make a big deal out of it. People almost always take what you give them. (Just a dumb truth about humans.) So now that she’s holding your phone, her brain will go through the physical action of picking up the phone and rationalize that she wanted this opportunity to give you her number. In short, she most likely knows what to do. If she questions or hesitates, tell her “she Just write down your number and I’ll call you later this week.” she will do it
The advantages of this technique are: you don’t have to ask, you don’t have to have a pen and paper, and you don’t have to make an excuse as to why you want to get her number, she already knows why. and she wants the same. One more bonus is that if she’s not sure how to use your phone, you can walk up to her, put an arm around her and help her out (but don’t kiss her yet, even if she wants to, make her wait lol). 😉 Also, you can call her phone on the spot if you want to verify her number. You may or may not want her to have her number at this point, but this is an easy way to make sure it’s her real number, not misspelled, etc. Then go on your merry way and let her think of you and start waiting for your call.
Well folks, that’s my advice on closing the issue. (The “Romeo technique”, so to speak). Go out and make some ladies happy.
CJ Romero
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