If you want to be successful dating women, you must lie to them.
Lying in general is bad practice. Not only is it questionably ethical, it’s easy to get caught up in one. So you have some explanations to do …
Still, you have to lie to women all the time if you want them to be attracted to you. Only tell a woman the truth at all times if you want an unhealthy relationship. Sometimes you just need to sweeten the truth a bit. Other times you are simply elusive. Then there are the white lies and sometimes a blatant Bill Clinton-style lie, downright honest or good. You need all of this to be good at seducing women.
Here’s why: women force men to lie. She demands it. When a woman asks you a question, it is actually two parts. One part is what you say and one part is what you need to hear. You must learn to decipher “what she wants to hear” from what she says if you have a chance.
I think women are born with the ability to ask charged questions. You know what kind of questions I mean. Those who say:
“How many women have you slept with?”
“Do I look fat in this dress?”
“What are you thinking now?”
“Do you like me more because of my appearance or my personality?”
How do you answer these questions? You can try to respond silently. It doesn’t work that well. If you don’t say anything, she’ll automatically assume you’ve slept with 234 women, she looks like Rosie O’Donnell in her dress, and you’re thinking you don’t like her because of her. looks or your personality. Innocent until proven otherwise only applies in a court of law, not in a woman’s mind!
Your second option is to weaken yourself by giving him a compliment. This usually doesn’t work because her question has been so disruptive to your brain that you’re afraid to say something, which is why when you open your mouth you seem insincere.
How about telling the truth? This is worse than either of the two options we just discussed. I don’t even have to explain why.
Then you are forced to lie. For example, if she says, “What do you like best about me, my personality or my appearance?” You can say, “I love you both, you are a perfect match for me.” Or if she says, “What are you thinking about right now?” you’re smart enough to know what she really means is “are you thinking of me?” So you answer this question, “I was thinking about how long you did it …” or “I was just thinking about how I would like to take you to …”
It’s a game. She wants you to lie. She knows you are going to lie. But she wants you to reassure her and make her feel good about herself.
Sure, lying is not glamorous. But when it comes to women, it is mandatory. It keeps the relationship strong. The secret is learning to tell him what he wants to hear.