How you ask for a date with single women can make a big difference in whether she accepts or rejects. Also, it is very important that you feel confident beforehand that she will accept your invitation to meet on a date.
Whatever you do, don’t wait for a “no” before asking her out. This can backfire on you by showing the woman your lack of confidence in women. If you expect rejection, you can create a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Let me give you some examples of the wrong way to ask single women on a date. These negatively worded questions can cause you to fail when trying to get an appointment:
- I know you’re probably busy Friday night, but if you’re not busy, would you like to go out with me?
- I guess you’re not free to have lunch with me on Friday, right?
- You wouldn’t want to meet me for a drink on Thursday after work, would you?
Can you see how negative these questions are? They are already programmed for a “no” answer. Also, she might think that you already asked someone else out and they knocked you down, so now you’re trying your luck with her. If you think this, even if it’s not true, it puts you in a bad position.
It is best to make it easy for the woman you are asking to accept your invitation for a date. Make it easy for them to say “yes.” Also, think positive when you ask her out. You think you are going to accept and there is no way you can say “no”.
In my opinion, this is the best way to ask a woman for a date:
- “My friends have been excited about a new Italian restaurant serving really great food. I’ve never been there. Would you like to try it with me?” (This doesn’t really have to be the truth, just make it up to get a date.)
- A good symphony / play is coming to town in a couple of weeks. This sounds like a lot of fun to attend. Would you like to join me?
- Some of my friends are going to the beach this weekend to hang out and have fun. They have asked me to accompany them. I know it would be a lot of fun. Do you want to come with me?
I’m sure you get the idea now. These are straightforward, no-pressure questions to make an appointment. They sound so much better than the negative examples I gave you so that you don’t use them to make a date. You do not agree?
Hope this tip helps you get more dates and happy hunting!