Looking to be more attractive to men? Unfortunately, many women get caught up in the multi-billion dollar “attractive women marketing schemes” and lose sight of what actually makes women attractive to men. Take a look at the following thoughts.
1) Do you strive to stay in good physical shape? Do you exercise and try to eat healthy? We are not talking about losing weight or looking like a model. Women who make this kind of effort are automatically more attractive to men. These women feel better about themselves, they are healthier and it shows.
2) Is your attitude positive or negative? Women with a positive attitude will be considered much more attractive than those with a negative attitude.
3) Are you self-absorbed? Ok this is a bit tricky as most people are pretty self centered. What is important is the level of interest you show in other people. Women who show a genuine interest in a man (as opposed to talking all about themselves) will always appear more attractive.
4) Do you dress tastefully or tasty? Would you rather be seen as a steak or a sexy woman? Men can’t help but notice (and enjoy) a tasty dressed woman. It’s like a dog licking your butt, it’s automatic, a reflex. However, it is not attractive to him in the way you want. Men are often “turned off” by women who dress up tasty. Unless you’re looking to be enjoyed as a juicy one-night stand – a tasteful dress. Don’t get me wrong, dress sexy but not seedy.
5) Smiles are always attractive. A big smile will take years of age from you. Isn’t that a woman’s dream, to be younger? Practice smiling more and the years will pass. Not a fake smile like you see in magazines and photo shoots, but a genuine smile.
6) A “still and quiet spirit” is always attractive. Wait, before you get mad, think the opposite of Rosie O’Donnell. If you want to look attractive in the eyes of a man, keep a “gentle and calm spirit” toward him. Let go of the “baggage” of those years.
7) Lastly, don’t look at yourself in terms of what you are not. See yourself in terms of what you are. Why? Simply put, when your attitude is focused on looking better, younger, slimmer, prettier, etc. – you are never at the level of your own eyes. Men can smell this “insecurity” from a mile away and it is not attractive. Focus on the things you have. Every woman can take positive action with every item on this list. When you feel better about yourself on the inside, you will look great to the men around you.
E Lawrence Welch