Many guys have a hard time not knowing what to text a girl so that she feels the same excitement and attraction that she felt when she first met you.
But what if I told you that there is a technique for texting her that could return her to the state she was in when you first met? You know, the state where she was having fun, feeling adventurous, and most importantly, she thought you were really cute. Well, cute enough to give you her number at least.
Well, there is a text flirting technique that will do exactly that and it’s called …
Callback what? Callback humor. Basically, they are text messages that remind her of certain things that happened the night before and therefore return her to that emotional state she was in.
Look when you met this girl in the bar or club or anywhere else, she was in a fun and flirtatious mood. But if you were to text her the next day while she’s at work or doing laundry, chances are she’s not in the same mood. Therefore, they will be much less likely to respond positively to you.
So the idea is that by reminding her of something funny, exciting, or exciting that happened the night before, you force her to access that memory in her brain and thus “call back” the emotion associated with it.
Plus, the best part is that she, in turn, will associate that positive emotion with you. It’s like the whole Pavlov dog thing.
So how exactly is callback humor used?
Well, the first crucial step is to have a good time with her or at least notice the things that are making her have a good time.
This is where solid play comes in. This is where you use PUA techniques like Push Pull or humor to create a positive feeling and build attraction. After all, if you want me to remember the good time, there has to be a good time to remember!
Okay, assuming you’ve taken the first step down, the next step is to simply send him a text message reminding him of what happened. Better to use specific examples here.
Don’t just say, “Hi, it’s Joe. I sure had a great time last night!”
That is too vague and will not activate anything. You could still be a random guy she just met last night.
Instead, try referencing a specific event or thing.
For example, you could say something like this:
“Man, how crazy was the bar last night? Remember when you went up on stage to dance and almost ran away? LOL”
Assuming you had fun dancing on stage, this text will bring you back to that state of excitement and will probably make you smile when you remember it.
Another great way to use callback humor is …
Nicknames Giving him a nickname is a great way to anchor the feeling he had when you gave him that nickname.
Now whenever you call her by that name, you will automatically be reminded of the circumstances in which you got the name.
It also serves to create a playful dynamic between the two of you.
And on top of that, it will sub-communicate to her that you two are very close and friendly. I mean, who else could have a nickname for you except the people who are very close to you?
An example of this would be if she is very athletic and likes to climb rocks and all that, you can give her the nickname Tomb Raider.
Then later, you can send him a text message saying, “Hey Tomb Raider! What kind of trouble are you causing right now?”
Again, notice the playful tone of the text. Having a nickname for someone almost forces you to be playful with that person. So if you’re like me and have trouble chilling out with a girl at first, giving her a nickname can be a great way to start rolling.