Men and phone calls are a mystery to most women. We all have questions about this part of our relationships. What should we do if you don’t answer the phone when we call? It’s one of those questions. Most of us make the crucial mistake of calling you over and over again. Doing this may seem like a great approach, but it isn’t for a number of reasons. There’s really only one thing you should do if he doesn’t take your calls, and it might surprise you.
So what exactly should you do if he doesn’t answer the phone when you call? The first and foremost thing is to leave a very brief message. Say hello and you’ll be talking to him soon. Don’t leave long messages detailing how ignoring your calls makes you feel. Also, don’t make the mistake of giving him a long list of what he’s doing that day and when is the best time to contact you. He doesn’t want to know about this. Beyond that, it makes you look incredibly desperate.
If you don’t answer your calls, you should stop calling right now. It’s tempting to try calling him over and over again in hopes that he’ll eventually answer. Some of us think we are being smart by blocking our number and then calling again. Do not do this. Your man will know it’s you. The fact that he doesn’t take your calls is a clear sign that he doesn’t want to talk to you right now, so respect that. Once he realizes that you have given up, he will suddenly become interested again. It is in the nature of a man to pursue those things, including women, that they do not have. Once you call, the best advice is to play their game. Don’t answer right away, and when you call him back, be brief and treat him more like a friend than a lover. This will instantly rekindle his interest in you.